Smell like DKNY'S Delicious for only a tiny price!

                                               DKNY DELICIOUS                                            

   Have any of my pretty little readers heard of Designer Imposters fragrances from Fragrance Rebel? I have! And I'm gonna tell you all about their perfumes.

  First I must say, it was shock at first smell! I'd wondered if Frangrance Rebel's perfumes really smelled anything like the designer perfumes. I blame my skepticism on the dollar store perfume! I've smelled the knock-offs before and there's only one way to describe them and it goes a little something like this: Freaking EW! I don't want to smell like a 200 year old grandma took a dip in a pool of alcohol. So of course I did not expect the perfumes from Frangrance Rebel to smell anything like the designer brands.

  I'm extremely snobby when it comes to perfume. I get migraines easily, but love to smell pretty so I'm picky. It's hard to find perfume that I like enough to wear. To be honest, I only use a few perfumes even though I've wasted money and tried millions. I've always stuck with the same exact perfume for years now. I love many of the designer perfumes like DKNY's Delicious. There are only a few I like enough to wear & DKNY has had my nose since I first smelled it. I would never pay the nearly $60 for it though. That's where Fragrance Label comes to be my hero! (Fragrance Rebel to. the. rescue.)

  I cannot believe how the perfumes smell exactly like the designer! Let's say I'm blindfolded & someone puts both perfumes (designer & the Fragrance Label Designer Imposter) to my nose and asks me to tell which is which. I wouldn't be able to. I think I shall test it. I'll carry my Fragrance Rebel perfumes with me & test them side by side! I don't think there will be any difference.

  Fragrance Rebel has tons of Designer Imposter perfumes that smell exactly like the designer brands! Finally a good perfume that smells just the same only you don't have to pay an arm & leg plus your first born child! I may be a cheapie, but more than $20 for perfume is outrageous to me. I'd never waste $60-100 on perfume, never! Now, I can have my favorite designer scents for only 3.99. This ain't your regular dollar store knock-off. I promise.

  Fragrance Rebel has a perfume that smells absolutely identical to DKNY's Delicious. It's called "Head Turner." I give Fragrance Rebel hardcore kudos for these! You can easily search their site to find what you're looking for in seconds. If you're looking for a specific perfume, say you're looking for Delicious by DKNY. They've already done the work for you since the bottle says "If you like DKNY Delicious you'll love our Head Turner". How easy is that!

  I'm just ecstatic about these body sprays. I can't believe how dead on they are. It's really unbelievable. I've never smelled a knock-off that smelled remotely close to the designer brand it claims to smell like. I've actually never smelled a knock-off that didn't make me gag or send me searching for the BC powders while clenching my temples.

  A lot of the knock-off scents have a cheap or strong alcohol smell. Fragrance Rebel's body sprays do not have even the slightest cheap-y scent or alcohol scent. If you aren't sure exactly how they will smell, take a whiff of your designer perfume and there you go. It's no different.

  I love all of them, especially the Head Turner and the one that smells exactly like Juicy Couture, it's called Yeah Baby.

  Like I said, Fragrance Rebel's body sprays are very inexpensive. They're 3.99! It's so worth it. Instead of having to take a small chunk from your entire life's savings, you can simply collect the change from the depths of your enormous hand bag & have your exact perfume. I'll be reviewing each of the perfumes I have from Fragrance Rebel, but I will go ahead and say, my twin sister is a die hard Ed Hardy perfume wear-er & she was over visiting today & she actually said good-bye to her monthly $70 perfume! She'd just ran out of her Ed Hardy perfume & that girl can go through it quick! She was sniffin' my Fragrance Rebel collection & fell in love with the Ink'd. The dollar store has a knock off similar to this, but does not even compare. Like I said, she's even more of a perfume snob than I am. That's something she don't screw around with. That girl would rather not eat for a week than to go without her Ed Hardy perfume & today when she smelled Ink'd she said it smells just like her Ed Hardy. She snagged mine & gave me a list of the perfumes she's ordering from Frangrance Rebel! She's hounded me to death over that stuff.

  I hope you guys will be back to see my next reviews on the Fragrance Rebel body sprays. You certaily don't wanna miss these. Also, do check them out & let me know what you think!

Not so sexy talk - yeast infection remedies

Hello my lovies,
I'm going to share with you some not so sexy advice. I know yeast infections aren't very pretty to talk about, but when have I ever not talked about something just because it's not pretty? Lol. Y'all know by now that I'm a serious cheapie.  Over the years, I've found many ways to save & I always try to let you know my "secrets."  Such as my ideas on how to make shampoo last a year rather than 6 months. (Yes I learned to make my shampoo last an entire year) & actually, the bottle I'm using now has lasted me a year and a half! 

  Well, I'm not here to talk about shampoo, but to hopefully shed some real light for my ladies  when it comes to the things that make the bedroom moments not so hot. Yeast infections. Yes, I'm going there. Did you think I wouldn't? You should know me better by now! lol.

  Some people get yeast infections quite often. It is NOT due to bad hygiene. Yeast infections are usually caused by sudden changes in hormones or antibiotics. Although there are other causes, from my experience & talks with other women, most are from those two things.

  I don't like to go to the Dr. (especially the cooter doctor!) unless I absolutely have to. I will always try OTC remedies or wait for something to clear on it's on. I don't think a yeast infection is something that women should have to spend tons of money on just for relief. Usually a Dr. visit for a simple yeast infection is not necessary, not in my opinion. You can get OTC meds that clear it up in one night.

  I know this because during my first pregnancy I was a victim of the awful, scary infection. I'm very picky about my cooter. I have to know everything about it and I also always feel the need to "test" things there such as hair removal creams that advise you not to use down there. If it says "do not use on your cooter." You can guarantee that I will. Everything has to pass the cooter test for me.

  To get to the point. I wanted to let you know there are other options for treating a yeast infection. And you can't always get to the drugstore when one shows up unannounced.

                                WHAT I USED FOR MY OWN

  First, I should mention that I'm in now way telling you to ignore symptoms or that you should not go see your OB/GYN. I'm not saying that. I'm only saying that I prefer not to unless I have to & since I have regular paps, I'm usually OK to do so.

  Yeast infections are rarely transmitted sexually, although it's possible.

  When I got an infection, I was pregnant and running a daycare. I worked from 8AM to 12AM a lot and couldn't get to the store. So there I was with a 2 year old who thinks it's funny to poop on himself & a 8 month old who was out of diapers because the mother didn't leave enough & the 2 year old used them all while playing his pooping prank, and a yeast infection to put the icing on the cake! What a wonderful day to get one.

  I was at the end of my rope. I went to the powder room & used peroxide! I had no idea what would happen & honestly did not care I just wanted the swelling to go away. It was a light infection because the symptoms weren't severe & I didn't have the awful urge to itch so badly. It was just uncomfortable because the swelling caused a little pain. The peroxide seemed to lighten things up.

  At the end of the night I ran a very hot bath & just sat there for a while & for the rest of the night I had no problems. The 2nd day, I was really worried that the swelling was worse.

  Since I've used tea tree oil & sea salt on everything growing up, I decided to mix tea tree oil with several tea spoons of peroxide & salt with warm water. I was desperate, I didn't care if I woke up with my cooter gone.

  It seemed to have done the trick! I had no discomfort at all. The mixture relieved it immediately. It didn't burn for me, but my symptoms were light.

           WHAT YOU NEED TO GED RID OF THE INFECTION:

1. Sea Salt or plain salt.
2. Warm water
3. Peroxide.
4. Tea tree oil (very helpful for the mixture, but if you don't have it when you need relief, skip the tea tree oil.)
5. Medicine dropper is helpful to have, but a straw can work. (If you have neither, you can use your clean fingers.)





        HOW TO MAKE THE MIXTURE TO CURE THE INFECTION
                      

- Take a small glass and add a few teaspoons of salt. You can use regular salt or sea salt. (Sea salt is very good for healing!) I used about 5 teaspoons. You can go with 3 or more if you like. (It may burn if you've scratched or have rawness, or mild or severe symptoms)

- Mix in several drops of 100% pure tea tree oil. I used 9 drops. You can use less. (If you need relief immediately and do not have tea tree oil on hand, skip this step.)

- Put in a cap full of peroxide. (I used 5 cap fulls, but I'm not sure that you should use that much!) It didn't hurt me.

- Now fill the glass about half way with very warm water.

- Stir it up well & make sure most of the salt has dissolved.


                             HOW TO APPLY THE MIXTURE

  First, I definitely suggest taking a hot bath first because it's brings a lot of relief to the swelling, itching, burning, pain.

- When you've got everything mixed, you'll need to get the mixture on the infected areas. If you prefer to only use externally, that's fine.

  - To get the mixture inside where the infection is residing & will continue to live until the inside is treated, you can use a medicine dropper or I find that a straw works. If you have to, use your fingers. It will be messier and take a little extra time, but it's fine.

- Laying on your back is an easy position to make sure it goes in. I've heard women say they used a douche to insert the misture, I'm sure that would be very handy (Just do NOT use the ingredients that come with the douche like white vinegar as it will feed the yeast and make it worse!) Just fill the douche with the mixture you've made.

- If you're using a straw, you can kind of let it run down as your "sucking in air." and it will act the same as taking a drink using a straw. Holding it in for a few seconds works better because it has time to get all over the infected areas.

- Then you can either let it run out or push it out yourself. I prefer the latter because the pressure of you sucking in the mixture then pushing it out gets the infection to actually rinse out. If you're pregnant do not try any of this.

- Repeat a few times, or more if you prefer. You can repeat until the liquid comes out much more clear.

- Keep the rest of the mixture you've made in a closed container & use again every few hours if it does not go away. You can do it several times if you need to.

TIPS:
~ Being in a bath tub with low water (so that you don't push the bath water which will contain the yeast after the mixture has been released from you.) helps because it won't get on the floor or damage sheets or clothing. Lying on your back is the easiest and most effective way to go.

~ You may see cloudy or white "clumps" (sorry for the graphic words.) come out in the water. It may also look like tiny bits of toilet paper.

~ Be careful and only try this if you're comfortable with it. If not, see a Dr. I'm not a Dr. I just share the things that work for me & other women.


               USING GARLIC TO RID A YEAST INFECTION

This is a quick and very simple way to relieve and totally cure the infection. Take a garlic clove and cut it into a small piece. Insert the garlic clove. Not too far! Garlic works for a yeast infection the same way it does a vampire in the movies. That's true, it kills yeast. I've never used this method, but have had women tell me that they did and it worked.

  One female said she left it in over night and the symptoms totally cleared in a few hours and the entire infection was gone by the next morning. I've heard so many women say this works. It's very worth a try! Some say it burns a little and some say it doesn't burn at all.

  If it does burn, I do suggest taking it out if it becomes to uncomfortable.

  Like I said, I used the tea tree oil, salt, and peroxide and didn't have burning. Keep in mind though, my symptoms were very light too.

  - I've also had someone say they warmed a garlic clove in warm water using a micorwave and used the juice from it on a tampon and/or pad and it cleared it up.


              USING YOGURT TO RID A YEAST INFECTION

- If you decide to go this route (it would've been my first option if I'd had some at the time.) make sure that you use plain yogurt. Not just any yoplait cheesecake! If the yogurt is not plain, it will only feed the yeast and make it much worse.

-You can either dip a tampon in the yogurt and insert or insert the yogurt alone. If you want, you can also just try the pad with yogurt but I'm not sure that it would relieve for very long & if the inside isn't treated, it will stay.

I've also heard that peroxide (dilluted) alone works.

I really like all the ideas. I've only needed to use them once thank God. But I'm so glad that there is an alternative to expensive doctor visits or over the counter, expenisve drugs.

*Lovlies, please do let me know you're results if you've used any of these & if you have any to add, I'd love to hear them!*

I've finally used the VAJ-J VISORS!

Hello, hello my lovies,                                                

A while back I mentioned in a blog post how I thought the Va-j-j Visor seemed like it could really be a great product. Well lucky me, I finally got some! I've really been interested in trying them for so long now and I'm very glad to have them. Wanna know everything I think about them, how they worked for me? Of course you do!

This is the gorgeous bright purple Vaj-j Visor. You can see the shape and size of the inside that makes for comfortable fitting. It kind of slopes down at the right side (the photo is sideways.) The sloping part covers the bottom part of the labia & vaj-j. The rounded end (left side in photo) covers the top part and of course the middle covers the majority of the labia and all.

  I've taken quite a few photos to give you a better idea of what it looks like, how it fits, etc.

                              
                              WHAT THE VAJ-J VISOR IS FOR             

  For those of you who aren't aware, the Vaj-j Visor is designed to "cover" the sensitive areas of the well, vaj-j. It's a small, discrete little boat like thing made of plastic, soft plastic that's a bit flexible. You place it over the entire labia areas for safety or modesty reasons such as electrolysis, hair removal, shaving, and tanning. It's a wonderful product for those of us who can't stand the thought of a stranger being face to face with our cooters while waxing or other hair removal procedures. It's also used to cover and protect the sensitive areas while doing at home hair removal with depillitories and such. You could use it for shaving, but if you're looking for a close shave then it seems it would not stay in place & only get in the way because as you tug and pull to reach inner areas while shaving, it will not stay. Also, if you're shaving close & shaving the inner parts, I don't think it will stay in place.

Here you can see that the Vaj-j Visors have a comfortable handle for easy placing. The handle like thingy is not uncomfortable & doesn't get in the way. They're surprisingly comfortable. So gorgeous!

                                   

                      HOW I USE MY VAJ-J VISOR (PROUDLY!)

  I used mine for tanning as I know tanning is dangerous and I am exposed to harmful rays, I feel much better knowing my cooter is pretty safe under the visor. I really hate the darkening of those parts from tanning, so the Vaj-j Visor is absolutely perfect for that!

  While laying in the tanning bed, you're laying pretty still and your legs are close together so it stays in place well. If I moved around too much it would fall right off though unless I tightened the muscles really good to hold it.

  I'm still learning to get it to stay put, but it seems to do well as long as you're not moving a lot or tugging at areas while getting around to remove hair.
  As I was told, it was a little complicated getting it to stay in place, but it did.

  I do my own hair removing. I do not go to others for that so I'm unsure exactly how the experience would be, but I'm sure it's much more comfortable having the Vaj-j Visor to keep those parts from being exposed and being exposed like that can be really hard for women. I have serious issues with those things! I love having them on hand just in case though.

  I'm not sure if professional hair removal requires a lot of tugging at the private areas, but if it does the Vaj-j Visor may not stay in place if you're not keeping your muscles tightened. But then again, I may be getting that idea because mine may be shaped a little closer together causing the Vaj-j Visor not to rest between the lips without it coming out.

  It does cover well though. Nothing will be exposed except for the vulva parts while wearing the Vaj-j Visor. I really like that it will cover any body type or shape. That would certainly give me peace of mind while doing any waxing or professional treatments.



Here you can see how flexible and easily it is to fit and conform to any shape. Pretty huh?

   

  These beautiful little guys are not only good for professional hair removal services. They also keep things covered while using depillitory creams. I did find that it was much easier to get the cream where I wanted it without getting it in the very sensitive areas.

  The thing is, while the packaging of the depillitory advises not to use the product on genitals at all, as I told before, I had to do it anyways. I wasn't able to cover it well or really keep it on long because of it rubbing together and smearing into dangerous areas so the Vaj-j Visor makes it absolutely perfect for getting rid of the unwanted hairs with no fear. That's wonderful!

  I keep mine in my purse for tanning visits. I'll be taking the pink one on a trip to the tanning bed tomorrow night! They are disposable, but I decided to clean it & re-use because for the tanning bed, they really aren't ruined afterwards & I cleaned it well with soap and warm water so it should hold up well. It was really easy to clean too.

  One of my favorite things about the Vaj-j Visors is that they can keep germs away. If you really think about it, laying in a warm bed naked right after other naked people laid, it has to collect germs at some point, clean or not. And the really awful thing about the tanning beds I just started going to is that they rarely get cleaned! It's a very small tanning business ran by one woman & I guess she really doesn't see the need to clean them. I've walked out of the tanning bed 5 times & had the owner walk out right by me without cleaning it & get in her car and leave. I'm dead serious. That's why I started requesting to clean it myself. I've actually got to where I bring my own cleaner and all.

  I still think that there has to be some germs that don't get killed. Whether or not that's true, I'd rather be safe than sorry & I can now feel totally comfortable & am able to relax while tanning.

  The Vaj-j Visor covers the entire area (Yes entry and all.) so no more nightmares of a disease crawling in while I'm napping in there!

PRO'S

1. They're soft plastic & flexible so they'll comfortably fit anyone.

2. It wasn't irritating at all. It didn't feel uncomfortable as you may expect.

3. Covers every sensitive part keeping you from being exposed to harmful chemicals, nicks, cuts, and UV rays, burns, labia darkening, etc.

4. Covers the entire insides to give you comfort during procedures such as hair removal, waxing, etc.

5. They're absolutely beautiful! Comes in 3 colors: a gorgeous green, purple & pink!

6. They are small & discrete. You can slip into your purse with no embarrassment. If it happens to show, either no-one will think much of it or they'll just think it's a really pretty container or something.

7. Disposable, but I cleaned & re-used mine for tanning.





  They're great for so many different uses. I'm very glad to have them! I think they're more than perfect. I actually have been thinking of carrying it along to cover the parts that aren't neccessary to exposure during a female's yearly exams. I think it'd be so much more comfortable having it to cover the parts that you don't want to show. Even though during those awful exams, you're going to be uncomfortable because some of those insides will be exposed, but it'd be very nice to cover the upper labia. I give the Vaj-j Visor a 10.

 *Let me know your thoughts. Have any of you tried them? Definitely check them out at: http://www.vaj-jvisor.com/ *

 

 

Crazy revenge story by: J-lolly. Keep your eyes to yourself or you just might regret it!

 Hello lovies,

  Now that we've been on the naughty side for a few weeks now, I thought we should make it just a teeny bit... naughtier! It is story time. You heard me right. Sex story time! Give me your best, most embarrassing, worst, funniest, nastiest, sweetest, meanest, etc. stories!  Any stories are good stories. I want to hear them all! & just a little tip: I'll add my own ONLY if you loves add yours. If you don't want your name to show up, you can go anonymous. I will not publish them if you do not wish to have them read. I only publish the ones who give me permission.

  To get it started we'll read one from J-olly.

"OK this ones mean but my boyfriend and friends would not stop talking about a girl they thinks hot so I started giving my boyfriends buds the google eyes you know, bat my eyelashes and bend over so they'll look and he would get jealous and start paying attention to me.

  Well it did not work out so I found her locker in our gym and alot of girls leave their locks open so when the girl left, my friends and I got out the red lipstick and dark brown liquid foundation makeup and colored the inner part of her knickers with red lipstick (to resemble blood) and the brown foundation (to resemble poo!) and we taped her red & brown stained grandma panties onto her locker on the outside so that when we all went to change the next day all the girls would see it! Oh mi god it's so funny and we of course knew that the word would get out and the boys would know. No way my boyfriend looked at her ass again!

 *My thoughts: Oh my! Wow! That's some serious revenge! I hate to admit, but I thought it was hilarious. Although, I would have stained up Mr. can't keep his eyes to himself's undies too & let all the boys see that in the locker room!

  Thanks so much for sharing your story! I absolutely loved it.

  Can't wait to read you other dirty little kitten's stories! I've got one of my own coming up for y'all! Also, don't be shy. Tell me what you think about the new idea here.*

Weird cooter product #2 Dye.

AND FOR THE NEXT WEIRD COOTER PRODUCT:


VAGINA DYE - (Since when did normal vaginas become such a horrible thing?)

There's pubic hair dye of all colors but I guess there's no sense in painting your vagina blue if your pubic hair isn't already green.

Is it not bad enough that we paint our nails, put on make up, and dye our hair?
Then we look in a women's magazine that tells us we've done it wrong, the new nail polish of the season is NOT red, it's green! Oh no! Now it's back to the manicurist again.

 That's not bad enough but now we need to dye our cooters too! All I gotta say is, ladies, we better be saving & finding time for all this. If not, who's to say our men will even want us anymore? Well, I just checked and my cooter is apparently not up to society's standards. Oh no! Whatever will I do? From the research I've done, it's obviously a bad thing if you don't do this. And you would be "risking your sex life with your man."

Guess what ladies? We have a man's opinion this time! It's my wonderful boyfriend's. I've already sworn him in. He swears to tell the truth and nothing but the truth, so help him God.

I gave him the scoop on these products & asked him what he thought.

Here's what he had to say:

"Dye your cooter?! What?! Why?"

Yep, you heard me.


"No! That's the most ridiculous crap I've heard. You don't need to color, it and do all those crazy things. That would just take away the whole fun of it. What man would want their wives to really do that? I don't. It's stupid and I like to have you how you are. No other way. Ok?"

That's what the boyfriend had to say.

Then he says "Uhh, you aren't going to DO that to yourself are you?"

Hahaha! He was getting worried there for a minute. He thought I

had planned to do it! I had to clear that up for him.

"No honey, I will not dye my crotch."
 
*Men, You didn't think us ladies would exclude you guys now did ya? I'm sure all of us would love to hear your opinions on these products. Would you want your partner to use any of these?*

My PeArL of the day - Saturday

 Today, my PeArL of the day is just a small one, a little saying I write on my mirror in marker. I like it and I hope y'all like it too!

 "A real woman stands up for what she believes in, even if it means being hated for it. A real woman takes no less than what she deserves. A real woman does not reminisce her past mistakes, but learns from them & looks to the future for better. A real woman does not give up but presses on. A real woman is totally faithful to those she loves. A real woman shows strong faith in the hard times, not only the easy ones."

-Kendra Richards

 I know, it may not be the prettiest little words in the world, but to me, these few sentences are what gets me through. They are what reminds me of my strength and faith. Without faith, you have nothing. I hope it can bring you some joy too, I know it's not as fun as my usualy PeArLs (..or are they even fun?! lol) but, I thought maybe just one of you would find hope in it.

Blessings and much love to y'all!

My PeArL of the day

 Today, my PeArL of the day is...

Gold bond ultimate healing lotion is My PeArL of the day. I love this product! This is the best lotion I've yet to find. It's not greasy, or sticky or thick. I always have an issue finding good lotion that doesn't feel sticky and heavy on. And, the best thing about this stuff is you won't need to fork over $35 dollars for a pedi anymore! That's a huge plus. It works incredibly well on dry, cracked feet no matter how severe the condition!




  Now, for my not-so PeArL-of the day:

People who promote a game where you torture and kill animals on their blog. That is disturbing and it got me irritated enough to blog about it. Why would we want our kids playing a game that teaches cruelty to animals. It just sickened me to see this blog. It actually said "everybody needs to play abc game. you go around killing animals and slaughtering them, it's so fun and it's hilarious!" They also wrote various ways you can torture the animals on the post but Im not posting that. But, seriously, what is hilarious or fun about being cruel to animals? But, hell, I still don't understand that one game where you have sex with hookers. Maybe it's just me that doesn't get into those things. I just think that's taking away from children when they play those games. It teaches wrong behavior and teaches zero morality.

Women - crazy, overly emotional wacko's or just simply human?

 For centuries women have had this reputation of being overly-emotional-whacko's-that expect men to be mind readers. Have you ever wondered why women do these things that seem so bizarre? Well, I am here to further explain... and hopefully change your mind! If I fail then, I do apologize but, please be a little open minded.

 Let me just simplify this:

Women: when men have done something that upsets us we put on our "bitch face" and refuse to speak.

Men: Eventually realize the problem isn't going away so they ask "What is wrong?" This usually results in the man being chewed out and possibly even given a black eye. Then, in most cases the female will say something along the lines of "you mean to tell me, you have no idea why I'm upset?" The male is totally confused. What do we think men are mind readers? That's probably what the man will say in these situations.

Women: We don't see it that way. We see it as he upset us. Now, he's no clue why we're upset and thinks we think he's a mind reader. We don't expect men to be mind readers, just body language readers. It's not easy to just come out and say "Look, you are pissing me off." We use body language to speak just as much as we use words to speak. So, we just think men are crazy for not noticing we're pissed.

 So, really all most women want (in this particular area) is for the male to notice her upsets and to us, noticing = caring. When the male addresses the reason why she's upset, that can make a world of difference. Nobody wins! or, even better everybody wins!

You see? You address her needs, and she's happy. When she's happy, she makes YOU happy. Are you with me here?

This is only a fraction of an article that I found. It may be a little difficult read but it does have great value. I think many women will find this article helpful. I hope you do! The author itha has done a great job at pointing out the parts a woman should focus on when shopping for plus size. Or even just a size over 4. Very good article!



21.08.2010
Author: itha

If you belong to a woman who has a big size body, often difficulty in determining the clothing you’ll use for important events. Actually choosing dress for Big women can style with layered clothing that can make this women looks beauty.



As long as they know the trick, with the shortfall, and highlight the advantages of body shapes. Try to use layered clothing, but not more than three layers. If you want to look taller, better use of vertical rather than horizontal-striped dress that will make your body width impression. Choose clothing that accentuated the basic silhouette with good but not too tight. Select a top that accentuated the waist line, match the belt, jacket or cardigan. Colors selection is also need to note. Select a top layer of dark-colored base, combine with a cardigan or jacket with bright color.



For Big women, clothing materials are also should be given attention. Choose clothing made from finely materials, this is very important because if you use thicker materials will make the body more looks large. To get an impression more slender, choose clothing that intersect V at the neck. Neck that are exposed will show the impression of a long and slender body. If you are wearing blazers or cardigans, let the button of them stay open in order to imposing a vertical line. For accessories, you can wear earrings or necklaces that hung down long. If you want to disguise the stomach, do not use tight clothes and too big.



Then match with simple trousers. Can use skinny jeans, boot-cut or leggings. A good trick to elongate your legs is to wear straight pants that cover your shoes. This will make your legs look longer a few centimeters. read more: http://wparticle.net/clothing-big-women.html

Please note: This article does not belong to me, it is not my work. The author of this article is itha.

Big IS beautiful too!

As you know, I dedicated a whole month to the bigger & beautiful women. It's taken me a while to get my posts going because I spent most of the month talking, interviewing, and finding out what these women had to say.

My interview with Kathy M. went deeper than I had expected. When I asked Miss Kathy how she felt about her self and her body she said "I could sit here & say that I am proud of who I am no matter how society looks at me but, that wouldn't be true." She told me that she didn't feel beautiful or happy. "I just don't know why bigger always has to mean less pretty." Kathy said. She also told me that most of the bigger women she associates with also are not happy with themselves often.

I asked Kathy what she thinks would make her feel happier & better about herself. I also asked her what she thought would make other women like her feel better about themselves.

She told me that she thinks that her being big means she can't dress stylish. "Big girls just can't do it." It really made me sad to hear that she truly felt this way. We talked about what kind of things Kathy wished she could wear. She said she just wanted to be able to wear things like a "belted tops, leggings and skirts."

I told Kathy that she CAN wear those things and look & feel good. She just has to find the right fit. "I want to shop at places like wet seal & rue 21." She told me. I replied with "Then do it." I told her that she is the only person that matters when it comes to what people think and I also told her that if she took the step to do these things then, maybe she could inspire others like her to do the same and allow themselves to feel happy & better about themselves.

A few days after talking with Kathy, I got a call from her. "I made my first purchase at rue 21!" She screamed. She was so excited. She finally had the courage to wear something that she wanted and she done it for herself. I was so proud of her. She told me that she hasn't yet got the nerve to try a skirt yet but she did go for the belted top & she loved the way it fit!

I hope that Kathy's courage will give other women the courage to do things like this & feel good about themselves too.

Kathy has plans this weekend to have her hair and nails done with a friend. I'm waiting to hear back from her & find out if she followed through with those plans. I really hope she did. After all she does deserve it. Every woman does.

What do you think would make you feel better about yourself? And what advice would you have for Kathy?

Myth or Fact?

Coffee sobers you up.    Myth or fact?

Actually many people believe that a cup of coffee will help sober you up after a long night of drinking. MYTH. Studies show that coffee does nothing to help you sober up, if anything it makes it worse. And can make you sick.

REAL MEN DON'T RAPE!

If  you're one of my wonderful readers (p.s. I luv all of you!) you've probably realized that I have alot to say about rape, and women abuse and all that stuff. Well those things began to make their way into my life when I was very young, they are a part of my life that I use to help other women thats the good that came from those horrifying expiriences. Well, Im posting about rape today. Mostly because it stays on my mind alot & lately it has been more than usual. Somebody today mentioned their opinion to me about my situation. He said "well if a woman goes to a party & drinks then, she's 'asking to be raped'" therfore meaning it's her own fault if shes raped. I have heard that alot but I believe that a woman should be able to drink & have fun without deserving to be drugged and raped. I believe that a woman reserves the rights to her body at ALL times. No means no. thats all there is to it.

However, I dont believe that its ok for women to use sex as a tool to manipulate or give away so freely. But still has the right to decide what a man does to her body. I have had alot of opinions on my situation. Not always nice ones. Some people believe that a woman should not refuse to have sex with her partner, & if they do then he has the right to 'take it'. Not true! It does not matter if your in a relationship or not if you say no then that means no. Some people have said that if a woman is wearing any revealling clothing or if she's a 'tease' then, she's asking for it. There are alot of different opinions about what the real definition of rape is.

I'm not in any way attacking men. It's not always the man's fault. Alot of women lie about being raped. If they feel they have to take drastic measures for sympathy or attention. Thats not at all ok! There are so many women that really have been raped but are not believed because of how common it is for women to lie about that. Thats not something to ever lie about. but people still do & because of that, there are many, many rapists running around free to do it over and over again, free to steal another woman's life. & not to mention taking away the man's life who they lied about raping them. All because of the women who lie. Alot of times women will not even tell anybody it's happened in fear of not being believed, or in fear of the rapist.

Just the other day there was a person in my small town arrested & taken to jail for having marijuana. His bond was almost two times higher than a rapists bond! WHOA! Why is it ok for a man to rape, but ot ok for one to smoke? Theres something seriously wrong with that. Smoking is not doing harm to anyone rape is. Well, Ive sad my piece. Now let's hear yours. What do you think about rape? Is it ever a womans fault? Is it her fault if she goes to a party, has a little to drink, then shes raped is that her fault for drinking or wearng revealling clothing? thanks for your opinions! cant wait to read them :)