REAL MEN DON'T RAPE!

If  you're one of my wonderful readers (p.s. I luv all of you!) you've probably realized that I have alot to say about rape, and women abuse and all that stuff. Well those things began to make their way into my life when I was very young, they are a part of my life that I use to help other women thats the good that came from those horrifying expiriences. Well, Im posting about rape today. Mostly because it stays on my mind alot & lately it has been more than usual. Somebody today mentioned their opinion to me about my situation. He said "well if a woman goes to a party & drinks then, she's 'asking to be raped'" therfore meaning it's her own fault if shes raped. I have heard that alot but I believe that a woman should be able to drink & have fun without deserving to be drugged and raped. I believe that a woman reserves the rights to her body at ALL times. No means no. thats all there is to it.

However, I dont believe that its ok for women to use sex as a tool to manipulate or give away so freely. But still has the right to decide what a man does to her body. I have had alot of opinions on my situation. Not always nice ones. Some people believe that a woman should not refuse to have sex with her partner, & if they do then he has the right to 'take it'. Not true! It does not matter if your in a relationship or not if you say no then that means no. Some people have said that if a woman is wearing any revealling clothing or if she's a 'tease' then, she's asking for it. There are alot of different opinions about what the real definition of rape is.

I'm not in any way attacking men. It's not always the man's fault. Alot of women lie about being raped. If they feel they have to take drastic measures for sympathy or attention. Thats not at all ok! There are so many women that really have been raped but are not believed because of how common it is for women to lie about that. Thats not something to ever lie about. but people still do & because of that, there are many, many rapists running around free to do it over and over again, free to steal another woman's life. & not to mention taking away the man's life who they lied about raping them. All because of the women who lie. Alot of times women will not even tell anybody it's happened in fear of not being believed, or in fear of the rapist.

Just the other day there was a person in my small town arrested & taken to jail for having marijuana. His bond was almost two times higher than a rapists bond! WHOA! Why is it ok for a man to rape, but ot ok for one to smoke? Theres something seriously wrong with that. Smoking is not doing harm to anyone rape is. Well, Ive sad my piece. Now let's hear yours. What do you think about rape? Is it ever a womans fault? Is it her fault if she goes to a party, has a little to drink, then shes raped is that her fault for drinking or wearng revealling clothing? thanks for your opinions! cant wait to read them :)